It's Hard Being a Human

I know every single human on this planet is great at telling their friends how to fix their own shit. I could be thake same shit we have going on, and we can’t fix our own shit. How does that work? Is it that we want the best for our friends, but sell ourselves short? Is it just easier to tell someone to have self control, than it is to just have it ourselves? We all do it. Thoughts on why?